Hey everyone, Ben here. I think I fell into this line of work in a slightly different way than your typical relationship coach.

Growing up I was good-looking, athletic, and had a natural bad-boy vibe about me.

Through junior high, high school, and college, I didn't have many problems getting girls and for the most part, they would chase me...

Which ultimately set me up for failure.

I ended up going to grad school and focusing most of my time and energy on completing a PhD in a super nerdy science field that led me to my mid-twenties with basically no pick-up skills.

The natural attraction I had in my youth was all still there, but because I never learned how to ask women out, or how to talk to them in an attractive way, or how to touch them in an attractive way, I struggled a ton getting past the initial stages of any relationship.

Essentially, I lacked dating skills and experience.

I think our culture is set up that this kind of stuff is never taught to anyone growing up, you just have to get good at it on your own - either that or do what most guys do and settle for the first or second girl they date.

For me, I ended up finishing grad school at 28 and although I walked out a doctor, I had never had a girlfriend.

I started dating a girl that year, largely because that's what I thought I should be doing, and we were together for a year before we broke up.

Since a lot of my friends were getting married or in serious relationships, I thought I was missing out on something but the more and more research I did, the more I realized that I actually had a great opportunity on my hands.

Although I enjoyed the relationship I was in, I decided that I would spend as much time as I could dating women and learning as much as possible and, let's be real here, having as much sex as possible too.

The next ten years led me to the place I am now, where I have gained massive amounts of experience with women that I consider it my duty as a man to share with my fellow men.

I currently have a girlfriend who I love very much, but looking back on those years, I have to say they were so so so much fun.

If you're a single man, enjoy it, enjoy it as much as you can and TAKE YOUR TIME figuring out what's right for you.

If that means sampling the spread, then make sure you sample it well.