After your first date, if it was enjoyable, you can text her something super simple that night, or maybe the next day. Something like: "Had a fun time last night :)" or "Thanks for a fun time :)"

AND THAT'S IT

Don't text her anything else unless she specifically asks you something.

Just leave it at that and then wait at least 4 days to reach out again, maybe even longer, but not longer than 10 days.

Remember that women fall in love and develop emotions for you when they ARE NOT with you.

So give her emotions the space to do that.

Let her wonder about you.

Let her mind do most of the work so that when you do finally reach out she'll be super stoked.

And when you do text her again, don't text her anything boring like "Hey" or "What's Up".

Refer to the text guide for more details on these but definitely open with something cute and playful that STIRS HER EMOTIONS ever so slightly.

That's the key to women.

The opposite of logic.

Maybe like "Wow I just drove by this park and __________ reminded me of __________ (something from your date)"

And then in general, don't text too much. You can have a little bit of text conversation, especially if she's asking you things - but that's also a great opportunity to cut out first.

Leave her wanting more.

Have a little convo and setup the next date.

When you set up the next date don't say anything like "Would you like to go to X restaurant with me, I heard it's good"

So lame.

Be smooth and assertive.

Something more like "My buddy found this awesome Thai spot on 3rd. Come investigate with me. Wednesday?"

I would say for the first couple dates, try to keep it to mid-week. Ya know, because you've got stuff with friends etc going on on the weekends. 3rd date plus then yea, you can do Friday/Saturday nights.

But keep it light at first.

And lastly, I know this isn't about texting, but if things are going well second date then definitely go for the kiss.